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tercourse.
Rules:
Always communicate with your lover, if you want her to
switch positions, move, stop, or start something.
Never assume she knows what you are trying to get her to do
until she becomes familiar with some of your non-verbal ges-
tures. Lack of communication could cause confusion and fear
of not doing something right, which may interrupt the atmos-
phere.
Keep in mind that some women don't seem to be multi orgas-
mic or have never had multiple orgasms, so do not expect
your partner to have orgasm after orgasm if she is not typ i-
cally multi orgasmic. Contrarily, I believe all women can be-
come multi orgasmic once they learn to let go and trust their
lover.
Unless your lover reaches orgasm easily, never ask if she has
come yet, which can be an extreme hindrance to her enjoying
herself.
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Start with kisses and light body contact
Now that she desires the mood you've created, move from
the shoulder massage to the kiss. Cover her entire body with
kisses, sucks, licks and nibbles. Every once in a while, describe to
her what you are experiencing as you kiss and massage. Tell her
how it makes you feel to do what you are doing and how her na-
ked body is driving you crazy. If she sighs with pleasure, mention
what a turn-on it is to hear her little noises. Express how you like
to see the different expressions on her face when you hit the sen-
sitive spots. Continue this type of communication lightly
throughout the entire experience.
Start kissing her neck and work your way up and down
each arm, all the while lightly brushing her nipples and giving her
a deep French kiss every so often. Slowly work your way towards
her nipples as you circle around each one switching back and
forth. Finally give a quick, wet kiss on one of them just to tease
her.
Move your kisses down across her ribs, stomach and hips.
After spending some time on her front side, tell her to roll over.
Start kissing the back of her neck then move across her entire
back until you get to her lower back. Stop kissing and start mas-
saging her calves briefly then up to the back of her thighs and butt
cheeks. Now start kissing, sucking and nibbling all over her butt.
Tell her to roll back over and continue kissing on her inner
thigh as you work towards her crotch. Massage and kiss the most
inner part of her thighs as you brush and tease her clit. (If she
grabs the back of your head and buries it in her crotch, go with it.)
Stimulate her entire crotch area, concentrating on her clit. Always
make sure she is thoroughly lubricated when rubbing her clit. Use
lubrication if you don't go down on her orally. (I recommend
"Vagasil Intimate Moisturizer and "KY Liquid Gel . They seem
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to be odorless and they don't foam up like other stuff.) Use your
thumb or fingers if your mouth gets tired. Stimulate her G spot
and clit at the same time with one hand and use the other to mas-
sage and tease her breasts. If you have the will power, slowly in-
sert the head of your penis with a couple of short strokes. Don't
go over half way in. If she pulls you in, resist once, to strengthen
the desire, but not the second time. Penetrate her as deep as you
can with just a couple of strokes to get real deep, then stop and
rub your pubic bone against her clit. Press her breasts firmly
against your chest and kiss her with passion. Continue this for
several minutes or until she has a clit orgasm. If you feel the en-
ergy cycling through your mouths, ask her if she can feel it too.
She may not have realize it until you mention it. Do as little
pumping and stroking with your penis as you can. Concentrate on
rubbing her clit with your pubic bone and continue deep kissing.
If she hasn't had at least one orgasm by now, gently pull
out and continue stimulating her clit and G spot, one or the other
or both until she has an orgasm. (Remember an orgasm is simply
a slight body spasm. She doesn't have to scream, scratch or ejacu-
late to have one and neither do you.) Try different positions. Lie
down next to her as you finger and kiss her with her breasts press-
ing against your chest. Or when she is lying on her back, sit down
beside her with your feet on the other side of her body and her
hips under your bent knees.
Continue giving her all the attention she can handle with-
out or occasional intercourse. Bring her to as many orgasms as
the mood calls for.
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Phase 3
Approaching the Threshold
Objective 1: Approach the threshold of unlimited sexual stam-
ina.
Objective 2: Deep intercourse penetration and deep kissing as
you rub your pubic bone against her clit bringing her to as many
clitoral orgasms as she can have or G spot stimulation with your
penis until she ejaculates.
At this point, you have two options. Depending on the
mood, you can tease her by giving her an inch at a time or bring
her to the brink of an orgasm and suddenly give her all you've
got. Both are excellent approaches so try them in the same session
or in separate sessions.
Option 1 - Creating a Lustful Desire
Lying on top of her or sitting with your knees bent as low
as you can, slowly insert the head of your penis while kissing her
and massaging her breasts. Talk to her and tell her what really
turns you on about her. For instance, talk about her lips, eyes,
breasts, nipples, hair, hips, and every part of her body that you
love. Describe what you see and feel in her so she can share in
your pleasures too. Give her just a little at a time, pulling out then
sliding in a little more, creating the desire to want it all. Talk to
her a little as you tell her how good she makes you feel and how
beautiful she is when she makes love to you. Eventually insert
your penis as deep as you can, rubbing your pelvic bone against
her clit until she has an orgasm.
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Option 2 - Element of Surprise and Domination
Note: Some women like aggression and some don't, or
they may have to be in the mood for it.
As you bring her to the brink or into an orgasm, suddenly
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